Medea Goes to Jail - Review

Medea Goes to Jail is freaking hilarious!..... I can't wait to see this movie again. Tyler Perry is the man, he has taken comedy to another level. I totally recommend this movie to anyone. Even though this was a funny movie it did have its sensitive moral to the story. Which all his movies have. I think that his movies are great because we all can relate its done so realistic. Medea is a mad women who believes in the "lort" as she says but yet is a hot mess lmao..... I saw this movie with my best friend shaly. We had such a good night, a dinner, some shopping and a fabulous movie..... a great night!

Tasting a little piece of peacefulness

First I want to say this picture is so beautiful, just looking at the bird alone with the sun shinning down on it, its outstanding. You feel at ease. Anyway, within the past couple of days, even through my painful tooth I have to honestly say that I have had some peace in my life. I stand up with I have to make changes in my life. I am happy I have. My kids are great, Hailey is more of a diva by the day, and Nikolas has a new hair style! He is looking a little like "Jim Carey" in dumb and dumber because he is missing his top tooth. HILARIOUS! But I have to say this weekend I had both of them and we did things it felt good. Even though my son told his dad something that no parent wants to hear. He told him that he doesn't love him because he loves me too much. When I spoke to him about this he stated that his father doesn't kiss him or hug him like I do and tell him that he is baby. When I told my husband he quickly got defensive and began to speak in a high tone to Nikolas saying that he does give him kisses and hugs. I stopped him because I was not going to have him speak to him in this manner when my son is only expressing himself. So I later explained to my husband that he just feels as though he doesn't do it enough like I do as his mother. Maybe he wants more attention and that is the only way he knows how to express himself. Not sure if this will change because I honestly don't think my husband has that type of nature in him. He is not really affectionate with the kids as I am. But other than that we all had a really good weekend. No word on the evil MIL, she has not made any attempts to contact us. I guess she is leaving it up to God as she likes to say. But it has been blissful with out her. Oh well...... I leave to puerto Rico in two weeks woohoo!!! I can not wait. Then in July I am leaving with the girls to Miami, Florida for a weekend trip. Which is going to be a blast. The girls who don't come its their lost, we don't go on this trip to act like little girls and do stupid things like great drunk and act stupid, act like slores! we go to relax and learn about ourselves as individuals. I felt so good when I got back last time. Can't wait to do it again. Wow, I can honestly say that I am pretty content on where I am today. I am working at a job that I can basically do what I want, work the hours I want, and make good money for now, also I am going to school to be a clinical psychologist, and my kids are great. I go out with my friends when I can, my marriage is still there but the point is that it is still there. So I can't really complain at the moment. Sometimes we need to acknowledge the good then always the bad.

DAMN TO THE MIL (mother in Law)

Well, me and my husband have been on the low this past two weeks. I have expressed myself to him like I never before. I believe he knows where I stand with my feelings. I even expressed myself to my evil mother in law, not that she cared to respond. He also wrote to her and she has not responded. She spoke to him prior on reading his email to her but she had read mines and when she called him for his birthday she acted like nothing was happening, as if I never sent her a email. He was stunned when she asked him if things are okay after he asked her did you read my email to you. He was in shock how she would just put it in the back burner as if it didnt matter. I can honestly say that he realized what I been saying to him about his mother. He said I can't believe she ignore your email and mines. In some ways I am glad she did so that he could feel how I been feeling for years. But since she been MIA I been in peace. We have been talking to each other more and I am letting him in my heart little by little not so fast but its baby steps. I have decided to post pone the surgery and go on a vacation with the kids and him to puerto rico. Maybe this is what we need. We need to have positive energy around our marriage. Those who judged me by her words and have not giving me a chance, its their lost. I am happy to say that one person in this crazy family has given me that chance to get to know me and have grown closer than my own cousins. Even though they judge her as well, I see pass her human mistakes and love her unconditional. Maybe because I see myself in her, and also because she is a good person. So I leave you guys here with the unknown of my marriage. I know that marriage isn't perfect but it should at least feel like one.