DAMN TO THE MIL (mother in Law)

Well, me and my husband have been on the low this past two weeks. I have expressed myself to him like I never before. I believe he knows where I stand with my feelings. I even expressed myself to my evil mother in law, not that she cared to respond. He also wrote to her and she has not responded. She spoke to him prior on reading his email to her but she had read mines and when she called him for his birthday she acted like nothing was happening, as if I never sent her a email. He was stunned when she asked him if things are okay after he asked her did you read my email to you. He was in shock how she would just put it in the back burner as if it didnt matter. I can honestly say that he realized what I been saying to him about his mother. He said I can't believe she ignore your email and mines. In some ways I am glad she did so that he could feel how I been feeling for years. But since she been MIA I been in peace. We have been talking to each other more and I am letting him in my heart little by little not so fast but its baby steps. I have decided to post pone the surgery and go on a vacation with the kids and him to puerto rico. Maybe this is what we need. We need to have positive energy around our marriage. Those who judged me by her words and have not giving me a chance, its their lost. I am happy to say that one person in this crazy family has given me that chance to get to know me and have grown closer than my own cousins. Even though they judge her as well, I see pass her human mistakes and love her unconditional. Maybe because I see myself in her, and also because she is a good person. So I leave you guys here with the unknown of my marriage. I know that marriage isn't perfect but it should at least feel like one.